Saturday, September 8, 2012


Greetings,

I would like to take the time to introduce myself and a wonderful organization of HIGH SPIRITED, DEDICATED LADIES...

I'm a woman learning to Love Again and Heal from the Pain (L.A.A.P.H.)... I started this organization because I was dealing with so many emotions all at once that I needed sisterhood, somebody somewhere who had or was experiencing a broken love, continuous bad relationship choices, self disappointments, family disappointments, career failures, but somehow somewhere sought the strength (GOD) to move forward and not have a total breakdown, or turn to street drugs, alcohol, prescription drugs, crime, prostitution for money, and for the ones who did breakdown and turned to their worst enemy...how did you recover and are you willing to help pull up someone else?  I was going and going and determined to find my PURPOSE, PASSION, gain stability, and completion for I and my family.

I had made lots of choices that were not the best or in the best interest of my future but I will no longer hold myself hostage to others judgments or personal beliefs, I will no longer let family or friends hold me in bondage for my past, that part of my life is in my past and used only as a reference to what I won't go back to...I WILL KEEP PRESSING MY WAY!

Well I've always enjoyed writing, journalism, I've always loved people, everyone and considered my self a social butterfly with a really big and awesome heart...ONE PROBLEM...I had the temper of Satan when I got angry and I often reacted before I could think about consequences, a couple of times in the holding cell and it calmed me right on down LOL!...but true, cooling off period and court got expensive, so now that I've gone bankrupt...what do I do to turn thins around?!?!

I had this idea to start this group of women that would break all the odds and cliche's that black women/African america women could not uphold a sisterhood, we are not able to help one another, we could not be in the same place without problems...I wanted to create a group of women with imperfections, struggles, stories, bitterness, love, success, failures, sinners and Christians, and make them a group of MIGHTY POWER FOR OUR COMMUNITY...We will give back, we will share our pain, we will love again, we will heal and maintain healthy lives and relationships, we will support one another by doing so...Amen!

13 comments:

  1. Nikki, I have to say that this group has come at a time in my life when I REALLY NEED SISTERHOOD... Breaking up is so hard to do but the right thing to do!!! Now he wants to be friends...WHAT!!! I can't even be the bigger person and be his friend.. Help ME!!

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    1. YOU have to heal first,men always want to be friends after the break-up because it rids them of. commitment and allows them to get the milk without buying the cow because he knows youre in a vulnerable position. Don't do it always be busy,surround yourself around people,read a spiritual devotiontional every morning before you start your day. Eork on YOU.

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    2. Well hello Miss Anonymous I call that affairs of the heart, what a touchy subject but GG said it best you have to heal first, you have to be at a place where you can be friends with out animosity and confused emotions...it's hard I'm kinda in the same place but I say break away slowly, take one day at a time to find you, love you, so things will become free, if he love you he will respect your space...stay busy, stay encouraged and by all means make sure that YOU, YOUR SOUL,AND SPIRIT ARE CONTENT AND HAPPY...stay in touch trust me it gets better...ONE LOVE SIS!

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    3. I've been there...the best thing is a good clean break! I tried to remain friends but it was to hard emotionally, to much back and forth, ending up in the same situation over and over...time and space will make you stronger and then only then, you might be able to have a friendship if YOU, want it!Good Luck,you are stronger than you think, when it's all over you'll be able to L.A.A.P.H!!!

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  2. Love it. Will blog tomorrow. This phone is the worse. Love you. Use your passion,pain,and prayer to pursue your purpose. I BELIEVE IN YOU

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  3. Love this! You go on! I love blogging, have two sites but not disciplined enough to do it as I should...Love your vision and that you're staying steadfast in it despite life's chaos..L.A.A.P.H. on ~

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    1. I'M STILL LEARNING AS I GO BUT NO CHALLENGE IS TOO BIG...THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT...STAYING FOCUSED ON GOD AND BEING DEFIANT AGAINST SATAN AND HIS TRAPS SO YOU DO THE SAME...BLESSINGS TO YOU MY DEAR!

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  4. Hey Nikki- This is great, glad you are moving forward and seeing your vision so clear now. I support you and want nothing but the best for you!!

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    1. Thank you for your pushing me supporting me Recoa to stay focused when I got off track, especially ur kind but firm words when me and GG was going thru...we are in his for the very same thing and thats to reach other woman and to also give back to the community...I thank God for you as a willing vessel in the lives of others...You are awesome YOU ROCK!

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  5. TOPIC: When did sex become so overrated? Why do women feel that giving up sex so early will make a man stay???

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  6. Hello Miss Anonymous,

    I so agree Sex is so overrated but we have to take the blame for us as well as our peers, we are the ones that make it overrated, we constantly talk about sex, positions, some how we gain a lot of self worth by how we make someone feel during sex...I know sad but until you have gone with out it and saved yourself until marriage and remained in love while doing so, ladies will never know that a man who wants you, wants you mind body and soul, not just body, until they practice the skill of waiting.

    You have to know your self worth to be able to make them wait, whether they get mad or not, so I guess my next question will be I GUESS THERE'S A BIG SHORTAGE OF SELF WORTH HOW DO WE GET THAT BACK! Make you want to say huuuuuuuuuuuummmmm...

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  7. Good day ladies hope all is well with everybody please spread the word about the blog page,so we can reach women all over the world....well once i learn how to use it first....LOL

    Be blessed but most of all be a blessing!!!!

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  8. Good Sunday Morning Ladies!! Let your smile be your sunshine on this rainy day

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